"I finally figured out the cause of my slowness in biking!" muttering softly to myself. Do you like biking? I do, but there's a little bit of a problem about my biking that I want to share with you.
Usually, during weekends our family would go biking together. It's one way of our family bonding and exercise. One Saturday afternoon, my dad and mom asked us to go biking with them at Lake Seletar Park, which is a few kilometers away from our house. We prepared some snacks and set off to our destination. My mom and dad went together on one bike. While my brother Tim used his red bicycle and I rode the blue one. As we were biking along the road, my father would be stopping once in a while if my mom would see me lagging behind much to them. Every time, they would stop and check on me I would complain the bicycle that is causing me to become slow in our journey. Well at least that was I thought the problem was. But it turns out that I was wrong. My brother Tim, volunteered to use my bicycle and lend me his red bicycle, thinking his bicycle was way faster than mine. However, when my brother started using my bicycle, the shocking truth slapped me right in my face. The truth was, I was the one slower and not the bicycle I was riding! All the while I kept blaming the bicycle, the path we're biking at, even the blowing wind but never bothered to check on myself.
Are you familiar with the story when Adam and Eve ate the fruit that God had forbidden them to eat? When God asked them what have they done, they started pointing fingers at each other. Looking for who to blame and not recognizing their own shortcomings. It's a common scenario that we have now in our times.
The same way in my story, I kept blaming many things for my slowness in biking. My experience taught me that I am not suppose to put on blame to others or to something if there are bad things that is happening to me, instead I need to check myself first. In life, we may blame someone or something of our troubles. We might even blame God of our problems. We need to remember, God gave us freedom to make our decisions. That's why we need to be careful and wise with our choices. We must hold ourselves responsible of the choices we make in life. If we don't want to make bad choices, we need to ask guidance from God and be willingly ready to obey Him.
Next time, if you think that your bike is slow, before you point fingers check first maybe you might be the one who is making yourself slow!
Prayer
Lord
Help me in the problems I face in my life. Let me not blame others for my troubles, especially You. Help me be brave to ask help from those who understand me, like my parents. Help me be wise and careful in the choices that I make.May you be my compass in my life. In Jesus name, I pray, Amen.
“Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye
and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?
How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’
when all the time there is a plank in your own eye?
You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye,
and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye."
Matthew 7:3-5
-by Jerry-